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Change Will Happen Only When The Pain Of Staying The Same; Becomes Greater Than The Pain of Change  ~ unknown

Are YOU allowing any of these excuses to keep you in a toxic relationship?:

»  “Someone else will benefit from all my hard work”

»  “I don’t want to start over again”

»  “I don’t feel like getting to know someone new”

»  “I’m not going to be able to live the lifestyle I’m use to”

»  “I’m too old to start dating again”

»  “I’m to fat, nobody’s going to want me”

»  “I’d rather the devil I know over the one I don’t know”

»  “There’s gotta be something wrong with me”

»  “All men are going to cheat anyway”

»  “ We’ve been together for… number of years…”

»  “He treats me good most of the time, so it’s really not that  bad”

»  “I don’t want to be the only one of my friends that’s          divorced”

»  “God doesn’t like divorce”

»  “He’s going to move on and then I’m going to be alone”

»  “I’ll leave when the children are older”

»  “If I leave, our children are going to have issues”

»  “I love him”

»  “What if he treats her better than he does me”?

You are not alone. I understand EXACTLY how you feel!  

That was ME. I was that woman too!

It’s o.k. I’m not judging you and YOU shouldn’t judge you either!

I know what it’s like to be in a severely co-dependent relationship and can’t find the strength or the courage to leave.  

I know what it’s like to be smiling on the outside while your soul is dying on the inside.  

I know what it’s like to try to do everything in your power to convince a man that you are worthy of HIS love.  

I know what it’s like to secretly envy the relationship of other women who look like they have it all together.

I know what it’s like to have low self esteem and self doubt that it paralyzes you and keeps you stuck in the same negative relationship loop month after month or year after year.  

I know what it’s like to feel devalued, disrespected and then remain it that state far longer than you care to admit. 

I know what it’s like to betray your heart over and over again…

Dear one. This does not have to be your reality anymore. You can choose to create A NEW REALITY TODAY! 

What I Know For Sure Is:

  A part of you knows that you deserve to be happy

  A part of you knows you deserve real love

  A part of you knows you deserve to be unapollogeticly  YOU

  A part of you knows you deserve to feel valued and  respected

  A part of you knows you deserve to feel safe 

  A part of you knows that you deserve to feel that you are    the most beautiful woman in the world to your partner 

  A part of you knows that you deserve to trust  your self and your partner

  A part of you knows that you deserve to live your dreams  and not have to sacrifice your happiness for the sake of  others

  A part of you desires to be more than a public success  instead of a private failure 

  A part of you is ready to become the woman you’ve been  pretending to be

The only difference between the woman who feels unseen, unheard, resentful, and unloved and the woman who is loved, cherished, supported and encouraged to be herself is the woman that feels loved and cherished has learned to Speak Up, Ask for what she NEEDS, gets what she WANTS and loves herself FIRST; before she begins to love a man.

Does this sound more like the life you’ve been wanting?

Do you really want to stay stuck another year in that soul sucking relationship?

Are you ready to finally become the kind of woman that can attract a loving relationship that encourages you to be who you really are, allows you the freedom to chase your dreams – guilt free – feel valued, respected cherished and loved?

I thought so!

Umm… yeah, this is the part where you say Heck Yeah Tara, Let’s Do This! Well all right then, scroll on down just a bit further and schedule your session today! 

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